My husband and I separated and he wants to work things out but he’s a narcissist and pathological liar. He’s told his family horrific lies about me, things like I helped my mom kill my dad, Im a sloppy drunk and my brother has to take care of my kids because I’m too wasted, I made him delete his social media, I told him to block his family, I’ve forced him to do all these things, all LIES. He won’t admit to any of it. He thought I’d never find out about the lies, I’m worried if I let him take the kids he will fill their heads with lies about me and they are very young, I don’t want to expose them to that. I want him to get some help first, I’m looking for a therapist for him, Does anyone have any advice that can help me?