So I went on a date with a guy I met online (blk app)

I’m 25 and he’s 21 years old and I’m thinking since he’s young it’s not that scary to meet up with him and since he’s in the military I guess I was wrong we went on one date but seen each other twice the first one Saturday and the second meet which was the official date yesterday the first time we meet we sat in the car and play music oldies and talked for about a hour we actually had successful conversations he did try to ask about my nails I gave him my hand he then focused more on just touching me then my nails so I kind of pulled my away and began talking again then we’re talking and talking and he asked for my hand again saying that I’m really soft it made me uncomfortable I was smiling awkwardly he could tell I was not wanting to and I told him oh no nicely and he began to push the issue  we finally got past that and talk some more and then he wanted me to get out the car and hug him. I told him it was too cold to go outside and he asked the same question a couple times and I kept telling him I didn’t want to and trying to be nice and smile at the same time. Fast forward I did like the conversation we had and he seems genuinely nice so I gave him a second chance he told me he wanted me the next day and take me out I did hesitate cause he was so pushy the first time but I went against my better judgment this time it was WORST! We went to get food and then the movie theater we ate in the car he open and closed doors for me all of that then we’re sitting in the car eating he starts talking about sex I told him I didn’t want to really talk about that because I’m not like that he then begins to ask about my hands again I’m like you seen my nails yesterday I was to nervous to really say no so I let him he just starting rubbing me and then ask me about giving me a massage in the back seat I’m like no I’m okay thank you … again not making eye contact and feeling uncomfortable then he starts talking about family etc so then I feel normal again not weird then we get to the movies and he asked me to come closer to him keep in mind it’s two seats together I’m like ok but I didn’t go all the way on him I proceeded to watch the movie and he’s starts rubbing on me I move my body away and I start talking about the movie he starts again and then ask me if I want to touch his private area I tell him no not right now and laugh it off I go back to watching the movie then he goes “I feel like you want a kiss” I’m like no don’t but thank you again laughing nervously after that hes completely normal again and talking about the movie lastly he was like I would say if you want to give me head I would let you and starts laughing … I don’t respond and giggle . I some how finished the movie and went home He texted me after saying he wants to take me out again and order pizza in his I told him I will think about it but I’m really sketchy. I just don’t understand the behavior he was nice and then he was just to aggressive I don’t know what to say or do advice?????🙃