Narcissistic husband

Me and my husband are separated due to his violence and abusive ways when angry….i spoke to him today and he will call me bogus call me this or that but when I bring up his abuse over the years he says things like that’s all you ever bring up is the abuse…what? Am I missing something ? He says I don’t love him etc etc and he used to love the woman I used to be…just makes me sad because he changed me to this angry ball of tension because I had gotten physically harmed by him multiple occasions over all the years we been together…he acts like abuse is minimal..I think I am doing the right thing by staying away