I don’t feel much when I finger

Ive been wanting to learn how to finger myaelf for a little now and I just can’t seem to get it. The other girls make it look like it feels super good…and they achieve an orgasm. I seem to be unable to. I feel that I’ve gotten looser and that I’m not as sensitive and that I’m possibly too big for it.

I have a hard time in a way bc I feel my arms are short 💀 and idk I try a come in and go in and out but it feels ok. But nothing good and but rhen if I just use my tips in a come here it feels better but I feel like I have to push are to even feel anything.

I feel bad bc I feel looser and that I’m not as sensitive.

Any tips? Btw I’ve used a toy before and I can say I don’t exactly feel the same type of good as my clit but I still feel something a lot more than just my fingers.