Finding someone compatible

What’s the best method to find the right guy? The compatibility aspect and the timing?

I’ve tried meeting men but at the moment I haven’t managed to talk to one that has some level of attraction towards me.

I met someone but he has impulsive thoughts. Would rather say one thing and then do the other. The same with how he treats women as well. I have this song and it’s about devotion. I constantly wonder that if I never met the wrong people I would have been able to devote myself already to the right guy.

As a straight woman who stands by it, I tell many family members and friends that I really like men. Plenty people close to me do know so they wonder when that man will come along.

Sad reality though, is that the man I’ve met he likes to have love scandals and relationships. Which I don’t mind at all it fuels my reason to talk about what mistakes he’s doing and then laugh at them. Best to have a good laugh about all the breaks in my relationships than dwell on the men that learn about women just to break them.

So I hate to wonder that it’s me that’s the problem, I like to think that it’s just how men treat life.

I constantly joke around and like to think that what I say is not the real reality of how I feel. Everybody hides their feelings so just like men we say one thing but rather than doing the other thing, we feel something else instead.

Better to be passive, than outright with our emotions. I guess it’s all about timing. When was your first relationship?