What to do?

I met this man, who decided to have a love affair with another girl. He sneaks around and he does it in front of me. After he told me many things he decided to go to her. I believe she saw him and they took it from there.

Since then he has been seeing her. Telling me that he is ‘cheating’. They’ve planned things on my life. I don’t think that’s normal to use me for their relationship. Sort of feels like a sick role play? Nobody would want to go through any of that odd stuff.

Rather than allowing me to feel emotions for another man he forces me to accept what he does.

I would rather have my own thrill loving a man myself. It would be nice to not be a part of this elaborate plan he’s scheming with the woman he’s seeing. I’m not really into that stuff? I’ve never explored that part of love myself.

Is he wrong?

Kind comments pls!