No catchy title just a funny but serious vent post.

My husband only ever wants me to wear a strap on. He never has sex with ME. We haven’t had actual sex since October. It used to be something we did occasionally (me with a strap on) but now it’s all the time. I’m really tired of doing it and when I tried talking to him he got really petty over it and said fine, that we can do whatever I want from now on. I tried explaining I don’t mind to do that at times but I have needs as well that aren’t being met. Haven’t been met since October. I don’t get anything when I’m not being touched at all I’m just wearing something. And I’m not being selfish as I said I really don’t mind to occasionally but for the past 4 months it’s been nothing but me wearing a strap on. Idk what to do when he acts childish from me just trying to talk to him. And yes, all our “talks” end up this way.