Bf made me so mad

My bf and I have been together for 3 years. Today for v-day, my boyfriend had hearts on the ground leading to the kitchen. So when I woke up this morning, I saw it and went into the kitchen and he had chocolates in a shape of a heart and a candle for me. It surprised me and I was happy. I told him I didn’t want anything special for valentines this year, so something small like that made my day.

After work, I came home and he was out in the garage. I took a shower, and then I lay down on the couch and fell asleep for about an hour. When I woke up, he was giving me attitude.

Later tonight he told me that he feels like there isn’t a spark anymore and he’s disappointed because he thought I would put on some lingerie and have sex tonight.

I knew we would probably have sex, but I didn’t think to put on lingerie and make a big deal out of it. He didn’t even try to do anything to have sex. He didn’t kiss me or make any move on me. But apparently I was suppose to.

I was hurt that he said that we don’t have a spark anymore. I don’t feel that way. Just because I didn’t read his mind and put on lingerie and do whatever fantasy he wanted tonight.

So we got into an argument over it. It’s so dumb.

Do you think he’s overreacting??? Or do you think I’m in the wrong ???