General question

Hello so I just got a surgery done on a cyst in/on my vagina (bartholin cyst) and I have stitches holding it open id like to say if this is too much please let me know and I will delete it, I was just wondering if anyone may have tips on how to go yk number two at all because I was told not to push but now I’m confused cause how exactly am I supposed to go without pushing I guess haha.