Wrong for this? Husbands family wants to take my baby?

So I went to Guatemala to meet my husbands family with our 4 kids. (6, 3, 2 and 6 months) and I am so ready to be back home to the United States.

We stayed in a hotel the first two nights we were here and I barely had my baby. His grandparents and aunt wants to hold him and baby wear him.

They even mentioned that he needs real food and not my breast milk. If I start feeding him solids here, I’ll never have him, only at night.

When they have him, he’s always ‘dry’ meaning he’s not nursing enough…

Every single morning that we were at the hotel they waited by my door (8 am) for the baby. That they can “watch him for me because I have my hands full” (I don’t. I’m capable of watching my children— especially baby)

Come to find out my husbands mom paid them to ‘baby sit my baby’ 🧐

We are now staying at my husbands moms house in the village (she lives in the states) and they literally come inside the house waiting outside my door for my baby.

I told my husband “I am capable of watching my baby that I don’t need a baby sitter. If they want to hold him and see him that’s ok but not long periods at a time whenever they want”

He said when I get back home I’ll have help and take advantage of them wanting to help me…

My baby literally cries for me and they try to settle him down… that’s not fair to me or my baby.

Am I wrong for feeling this way? I feel like they are being too much at this point and I’m resenting them. Not to mention they don’t talk to me but stare at me like they want to chew my head off

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