Is the sexual assault?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for several years now. However something has really been bothering me. Lately I haven’t been feeling up to sex as much as I used to. We have just moved to a new area and I’m at a new job that stresses me out. Needless to say, I’m stressed and sex isn’t on my mind at the moment.

Some days I feel like I have to have sex with him so he doesn’t get sick of me because he just constantly seems to be wanting it and he constantly asks for it. Even when I say no he makes comments about me not wanting him anymore. This morning he woke me up and he was already touching me in a sexual manner before I even had the chance to wake up. I rolled over to try to go to sleep and he just wouldn’t stop. He kept touching and grabbing. He started tickling me until I finally got up. He seemed like he was playing but the thought of him touching me like that when I’m not even awake has me worried. Am I over reacting? He was rubbing the top of my panties and pulling my shirt down.