Hi! I am turning 20 soon! My baby is 3months right now.

And I am scared I am in a Narcissist situation.

I kicked my partner out recently because they were getting upset having to cook and clean for me.

They went and hung out with some friends. Said the friend uses insulin but doesn’t have a sanitary sharps disposal bin?

They almost sat on one on their couch. (The friend just stabs them into the couch when he’s done injecting insulin sometimes!?) and instead “played with” and looked at the USED sharps.

They said the insulin sharps were cool. I would agree if they were not USED. My older brother has diabetes.

we don’t know this friends medical history.

I went completely silent

and they said they could imagine the surprised look on my face.

I was not surprised I was horrified. I started talking to them about miscarriages and infections and how sharps can contain multitudes of diseases and it was unbelievable that they played with them with their BARE HANDS.

Now they are saying that I have no space for them, my child or want to be with them.

They proposed and I said yes!

I planned the wedding and now it feels like they have gotten cold feet before the kids even here.

They put me and our child in an indescribable amount of danger and is now telling me that they will be a good parent regardless of what I say or do and that quote “they will see their kid”

I am terrified that they will never leave me or the kid alone and will continue to make immature decisions that put me and my child in danger

but still believe they are the best partner or parent to our child.