Do I stay or leave??

Lately my boyfriend has been becoming distant

Like yesterday we barely talked as we both had a busy day, so we knew evening we’d have time to chat. Well he ended up watching the Taylor swift tour on disney+ so obviously communication was sporadic. He texted be brb after willow! 1.5 hours later

he texts sorry got caught up in the music. We can talk now

We talked 3 mins he disappeared for 45 mins said soooo sorry my friend called

I said not a problem, I’m tired good night

Today he didn’t reach out til 2 pm

I got back to him at 3 (since I was at work)

He accused me of making him suffer without me on purpose I said I didn’t

Then he vanished for 4 hours and said sorry my friend Josh called

I said not a problem!

Then he says heading out to a movie will be back at 10 pm!

These are just a couple of the incidents

I’ve brought it up to him and how I feel and he says you do it too!!!!!!!! I said I actually don’t vanish on you for hours and if I do you know I’m working and if I do I check in with you periodically just to see what’s up so you don’t feel a certain way.

I mean he used to check in whilst talking with friends before now he don’t

He keeps sending me a dua lipa song called Houdini and I’m like ????