Am I having enough sex?

Now, I know this is technically a question for a doctor but I want a real life experience answer and not just a textbook answer.

I have voiced to my husband since we started TTC our second back in August of 2023, that we may not be having enough sex prior to my positive OPKs to get pregnant again and he’s convinced that we are doing enough and it will happen when the time is right. With our first, she was an accidentally on purpose situation since we both knew once I stoped BC that I could end up pregnant if we weren’t careful and two months later I was pregnant but now we are struggling to get pregnant again.

I guess some background info that may be helpful to know about my struggle to get pregnant is that I never lost the baby weight from my first pregnancy and I’m technically considered obese on a BMI scale. I’m 5’5” and currently 220lbs, and I was 190lbs when I got pregnant with my first. I weighted 220lbs when I had my first and she is almost two now. I’m convinced it’s my weight causing me to not be able to get pregnant and I have struggled in the past recently years to lose weight and keep it off but I am currently working on myself so hopefully losing some weight will help but I’m getting iff track here.

Below I’m going to post some pictures of my cycle and BDing activities and I just want in your opinion to tell me if the BDing is the only thing considered, if you think what we have been doing is enough.

October 2023

November 2023

December 2023

February 2024

March 2024