Cheap boyfriend

Hey girls my boyfriend spent $50 on the engagement ring he got me I don’t mind it but I haven’t told my family his financial situation as they think he makes as much as me I have about 65k saved up I’m only 23 and he’s the same age and has no savings and is struggling to find a job and and hasn’t worked since high school we met about 8 months ago and he doesn’t have a car or his licence so I’m doing all the driving and he lives 3.5 hours away from me so it’s a lot of fuel every weekend so I started going every second week but he doesn’t get it and says I don’t love him enough as I’m not seeing him enough but I have my job here and iv already called in sick a lot to just see him and he talks about moving in together and tells me I can handle paying for it all since I have the most money and he will pay me back and when we first started going out I would offer to pay hoping he would stop me but he just says okay so iv stopped paying for his things and told him he needs to buy his own things and just because I have money doesn’t mean I should spend it all and he always says I’m working so I’ll get it back anyway and it’s honestly frustrating like we both live with our parents and I haven’t told my parents he doesn’t have money and he gets mad when I bring I wanna ask my mum for advice but he doesn’t want them to know he has no money as they would tell me he’s not good enough but he’s trying I was just hoping for some advice on how I should handle this as I can’t tell anyone