Need to vent without judgement

So basicallyme and my husband had an argument and he says "Ive seen mothers do what you do plus more." And it was about how i didnt want to go back to his moms place to do him a favor, even tho i moved out of there because she constantly would talk aboutme behind my back. (We used to live with her, he works out of town). But idk him saying that hurt me because i feel like he makes me feel like im not emough. Im a stay at home mom, i take care of our daughter. And it feels like when i dont do something he asked me to do he lets me know that i dont do anything. And it makes me feel like im not enough. I take care of our daughter. He complained that i never cook for him, i started doing it more. He complains we never have money, but i made sure he had everything he needs. He complains that im not thoughtful enough, and i sounds silly but im leanrning how to make tortillas because he doesnt like the store bought ones. Maybe im not the perfect partner, i can be a lil toxic as well. But i spend my days taking care of our daughter. And livingat his moms ill admit, i did step back from cooking for him, and taking care of him. Our daughter is 6 months and i struggled with postpartum and living there didnt help. He says he understands but i dont think he does. I think his mom got in his head about how i never cook for him or take care of him. And tbh i apologizedto him but i told him i was struggling to hold on and take care of myself! Idk i just needed to vent because i feel like im not enough. I feel like maybe my best isnt my best. And for him to tell me "ive seen mothers do what u do plus more." Idk it just has me over thinking.