Diabetic or has become diabetic 2nd trimester

What do you mommies to be do? what diates are you guys on ...has anyone had trouble finding out gender ?

I had my 20 week scan yesterday bbys heart beat is fine moving just fine but couldn't make out gender

Apparently bby is on my left side and also couldn't really see much cause bby was faced and positioned facing towards me ....I do have high blood pressure and doc said my glucose was elevated 😑🙄😭so I have to do the 3 hour glucose

Is anyone going thru the same let me know and this will be bby #4 for me