Is this concerning/ is he abusive

- When I told him it hurt he told me it’s because I didn’t want to do it right

- Didn’t message me for 2 weeks then when I message him he was telling me he’s doing good then accused me of not loving him

- Told me he lives alone then says he doesn’t

- Would go on dates at night with me in the park and when it got cold I told him let’s go inside and he wouldn’t

- Found more than 2 addresses In his phone and photos of girls

- Assumes I’m angry at him at times

- He demands me to tell him I love him

- Refused to wear condoms during sex

- When I was going through his phone I saw photos of his writing saying he’s from Honduras meanwhile he told me Mexico, another number that he’s associated with, recipes of cashing checks, photos of girls that look like me and places he goes to yet he doesn’t have license

- When I was asking him a question to get to know him more he would be very dismissive and think it was odd I was doing so

- Told me he wanted to take me to Mexico and “meet his family”

- When the date didn’t go so well I told him go get a ride then he said he’ll pay me and show me his ID when we get home so I agreed to drop him off and when I did he held hands with me and went to kiss me at the door then wouldn’t let me inside and he still hasn’t paid me or showed me his ID

- He tells me he loves me because I’m pretty and sometimes he’ll give attitude when I speak to him

- It’s been 7 months and he had yet to let me into his home, meet his family, go to restaurants with me, tell me his birthday, show me his ID, etc

- when we were last together I told him it hurt and to stop yet he wouldn’t. It hurt me and made me bleed but he kept going.

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