Gender!? Be surprised or wait??

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I’m currently 21 weeks - I have been planning to be surprised…. They gave me an envelope with the gender at my last appointment and I’m so tempted !!! Did you wait or be surprised !? Was it worth it!?

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I am also struggling with this as I have 2 boys and this is my 3rd and last pregnancy.  I don’t want to find out but I’m finding it hard to think of names which is making me want to find out.  My husband wants to know but has been good about waiting since we found out about the first 2 because he really wanted to, so he’s trying to respect my wishes.  Lol if only he knew how torn I’ve become especially since I had my 20 wk scan yesterday and got an envelope.

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Definitely wait for the surprise 🥰 we did with our first and everyone thought she was going to be a boy but I had such a strong feeling she was a girl- it was fun hedging our bets and getting everyone involved and then announcing 🤩
This time we are having twins and we said that we had had enough surprises with that news 😅 but as soon as we found out, I was a little disappointed not to have that to look forward to. Still super excited to be having a boy and a girl though!

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You won’t regret waiting but you may regret finding out and then it’s too late.
We didn’t find out with our first and that was fun. I’m pregnant with twins so this time we wanted to know. Like the previous post said, both have been fun. 
The advantage of not knowing is not getting everything one gender so it can easily reused if you wanted to.

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We waited with our first two. Although both timeswe guessed right. But i also had 2 emergency csection... the gender reveal wasnt as exciting because of that. We just found out for our 3rd and last at 23 weeks. I cried about it... a feeling i never got to experience during emergency surgeries. So it worked for us!

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We wanted to be surprised with our first one. This time we wanted to know. Both ways have been great!
This time my husband found out first and I told him to do the “reveal” to me and our daughter. He went to the store and bought a bunch of candy in a yellow bag. When we opened it up all the candy was pink! It was really fun. We don’t typically buy highly gendered things for babies, so it doesn’t make much difference to us, but it’s still nice to know. 
Since I already know this time, it seems like things are going faster, but maybe that’s because I’ve been through pregnancy before.

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@GlowGPT please help me with this topic!

Gender!? Be surprised or wait??

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