What should I do about me wanting to be pregnant so soon?

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I am an adult in her 20’s and I want to get pregnant before it’s too late because I am adult and I’m worried if I wait until I am stable it will be too late for me to concieve. Freezing my eggs isn’t an option either. Some people think I am not ready but should I not listen to them because I am getting too old? I am almost 30. I think it’s time. I can just move in with the guy that gets me pregnant if I get in a relationship with him. What do you think? Lots of girls my age are getting pregnant without being stable because of their age.

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I’ve never heard anyone list so many terrible ideas all in a row like that. You are very clearly not mature enough to be having a baby if you think that what you just shared is even remotely a good idea. ￼

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Having a child because of your age is unfair. Be stable, be in a loving relationship.

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🥴 Girl, a baby isn’t for the weak. It ain’t all rainbows and sunshine.
You need a good loving partner for the baby. It ain’t all about if you can afford it and if you want it.
It’s also about having the support system. I wouldn’t of made it out emotionally stable of the first few weeks without my loving husband. I was emotionally a mess because of all the hormones. I had baaad baby blues. Cried every few minutes like hard sobs.
He also helped so much and still does. I would go crazy if I had a baby with a man that didn’t support me.
Wait until you find the one. Having a child in your 30’s is fine.

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You don’t have a baby just because you’re getting older. plenty of people get pregnant with no issues well past 30. having a baby isn’t just having a baby, it’s having a baby then a child, a teenager and eventually an adult that you have to take care of and support financially and emotionally for the next 18+ years, actually longer than that because you don’t just abandon your child at 18. and most likely you’ll be doing it on your own if you’re getting pregnant intentionally when you’re not in a relationship. you’re thinking impulsively, like you’re going to be barren the second youre 30 which is not true. You’re not thinking rationally

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What even is this post.. girl you need therapy

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you’re delusional. go see a therapist and please do not subject a child to your mess and instability.

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Girl no one is moving you in after dating a couple months and you purposefully getting knocked up

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You sound quite immature and clearly not ready for a baby if you’re not stable and assume you can move on with anyone who gets your pregnant. I’d spend time getting yourself together first.

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No, Christina.  This is not a good idea at all.  Stay on your birth control.

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What’s the rush besides you comparing your life with everyone else’s? It’s not a race.

What should I do about me wanting to be pregnant so soon?

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