No sex drive!!!

I am going crazy!! I love my husband and I think he is so sexy but I have zero sex drive!!! I’ve been to a few different doctors about it and I get no answers or that I need to be on an anxiety pill which I’ve been on and it does not help. I don’t want a sexless marriage and I can tell it bothers him so much. I don’t want this to end up us getting a divorce. I need help! Why can men just get a pill and be ready but it’s like pulling teeth to get help for women in this area???