Would you be ok with your bf getting your friends # when you’re not around?

She calls me and tells me not to get mad and I said what? And she’s like promise not to get mad. And I’m like okay. She said I ran into your boyfriend a couple months ago and we talked and wanted to plan something for your bday and take you out so we exchanged phone #’s. (Mind you she confessed this 2 MONTHS after my birthday) So I was just thinking to myself why would us 3 go out for my birthday? And why is she telling me this months after my birthday and they never even did anything for my actual birthday? Lol Anyways I found it very weird my boyfriend never mentioned it & she told me but months later. Anyways I later find out that they added each other on instagram and twitter, and she DM’d him. (She told me this) (I don’t even have instagram or twitter…. So idk how they even found each other on there I’m their only mutual) but she didn’t tell me exactly what it was.

I started to get an iffy feeling because my friend is known to be a (hoe , cheating on boyfriend.) so i told my boyfriend to unfollow her. He did. Months later I just randomly check again and I see we have a mutual and I check and it’s HER again. They added each other again.

Is this weird or?

Y’all this is a childhood friend that has told me herself she’s a hoe. lol. It’s normal to be friends with someone who considers themselves a hoe, just don’t get in between my relationship and we’ll be fine lol

EDIT: this is my bf of 2 year and we are all 20, no he isn’t planning a proposal! lol and me and her aren’t BEST friends, we are good childhood friends that’s it. We all hung out together two times! So my relationship with each of them is very much separate so I thought it was a bit weird they’d think I’d want to celebrate my bday with both of them at the same time.