Hi everyone

I am a young mom of 2. I had my first little one when i was 18 and the next when I was 20.

I never really had my nights out or with friends and I didn't finish school die to financial reasons.

Me and my husband don't really care who the other spends time with.

Not in a mean way but i have alot if male friends and my previous relationship the guy hated it and i had to cut them off. So when i met my husband ny first words word were I am not doing it again.

He agreed. But lately after our latest I feel overwhelmed like he never offers to help. Im a stay at home mom. But he gets home and is on his phone or infront of the tv. I get it he works his tired i don't try and say he does nothing.

But he never voluntarily does something if I am busy I have to drop everything get everything ready and then ask him to just please change or feed the baby. He gets irritated when he has to soorh the baby cause im calling a friend or my family.

Even on weekends he gets up early sits infront of the tv and plays games. I have to still do everything, tend to the kids and so on.

One of my friends birthdays are coming up and I approached him with the details. I said we were both invited and I would really like to attend how does he feel. He just brushed it off

I know he doesn't want to party anymore so I added that he didn't have to come but the party is rather far so I would spend the night with the friends...he has met them all.

So i asked if there is any possibility of me going just for a night being gone for the party and spending the night as to not have to travel an hour back at like 2 in the morning. But i get ignored.

He just got a whole kid free week. Where I had the kids all week and he had it off we had all gone away for the holidays to family and he left early. So he was home a week with no worrie sof the kids.

But now that I ask if I could just be gone from a friday afternoon till Saturday morning I get ignored or just get 'well see".

Is it to much for me to ask for one night to just be my age?