Should this be a dealbreaker?

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I’ve been seeing a guy for about a week, we’ve liked each other for a long time and so far, we’ve been spending every day together. It’s been going great. However, he’s been offering to pick me up and drop me off to work and ofc I don’t rely on him. But I called 3x this morning, he was sleep and didn’t answer but when he woke up he apologized. He said he would come to my place around 7 once he finished running his errands. I said alright. He never came, he was supposed to drop me off to work as well tonight and never did. Should this be a dealbreaker?
Edit - I did get to work without him and he said he overslept again

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Flaking more than once? Yes that would be a deal breaker for me!

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It would be for me because consistency is important when building a relationship. Doing what you say you're going to do and being consistent with that is one of the main things that builds trust in a relationship.

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Once I could understand. Things happen. But twice in a short period is a red flag.

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i mean if he made it so you couldn’t get to work then you were kind of relying on him. what was his explanation? did he just not show up and never said anything?

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personally it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker for me if things are good otherwise, I understand shit happens. but if it’s a dealbreaker for you then that’s okay too. that’s your decision to make

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Yep

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It sounds like you told him you didn’t need a ride, then called him at 7 am expecting him to wake up for you and bring you to work. I wouldn’t be upset personally

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This wouldn’t be for me personally as I have recently experienced the same thing (month into dating, 9 years of friendship behind us) he is extremely busy from work and there has been occasions where work has kept him way later than expected and he hasn’t been able to see me. Or he has been so exhausted he has fallen asleep. 
He knows it bothers me and is working on cutting down work hours as we get more serious to help avoid these situations, but we have talked about it. And I have put in place some boundaries to protect my own emotional wellbeing. 
It’s early days but you still want to set a standard for yourself. You don’t want this to become the norm or him think it’s acceptable because your “cool with it”

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It’s wouldn’t be a deal breaker for me as it’s to soon for that but I wouldn’t ask him to again lol

Should this be a dealbreaker?

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