Generational trauma

I saw a post where a girl was saying that her mom didn’t deserve how she acted towards her as a teenager, but the comments were overwhelmingly negative towards her viewpoint. They were saying that she shouldn’t feel bad because her mom created her and she is all of the worst parts of her mother basically.

I was also a demon of a teenager and gave my mom how. But I can honestly say that I do agree that I was exhibiting all of her worst traits as a teenager, but I still don’t think that she deserved that!

My mom was delt such a shitty hand in her childhood and she busted her behind to make sure that I never experienced anything remotely close to that, and she very well succeeded. But she still had her faults, triggers and feelings. I know my mom wasn’t perfect, but she is cut from the very cloth that I am. Idk how I would have handled the things she went through.

I don’t know what the point of this was tbh