Should I tell him or not?

Question

I just found out that I am 2 weeks pregnant. I have only been seeing my boyfriend for about a month now. He expressed that we are moving too fast and has become distant with me after we had unprotected sex. Should I tell him that I'm pregnant and want an abortion, or just keep it to myself? I'm afraid he will resent me for my decision and he won't want to be with me anymore. Help.... I feel so sad and horrible about this. What should I do?

Answer

Have you talked to him about why he suddenly wants to back off after havin unprotected sex and why do it unprotected knowing that’s how babies are made just to wanna get an abortion when it happens. Like there’s no hate about getting an abortion even tho I don’t agree with it at all but it makes me sad that y’all both willingly did it unprotected then you wanna end the baby’s life and just know that there is a chance that getting it done can possibly cause issues with getting pregnant later on. Not sayin it will but just keep that in mind.

Answer

If you are both committed and truly love each other, I would have a heart to heart with him and tell him how you feel. By hiding it, you are not being completely honest and if I were in his shoes, I’d want to know. Either way, ultimately only you can make the decision. If you tell him and he loves you, he will support your decision and be there for you.

Answer

You should inform him and have an adult discussion

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