Need advice, break up or no

I went to take silly pics to post on my partner’s snap story and saw that he sent his friend this picture of my butt in see through underwear 2 weeks ago.

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I confronted him and he said at the time he didn’t think it was that big of a deal but he is genuinely sorry and wants to be given a second chance to build the trust back. I told him he disrespected me, demeaned me, violated me, and embarrassed me. I told him I lost all trust in him because my body is only for him to see. The thing that gets me is that he knew I was traumatized from an ex posting nudes of me when I was 15 so I feel betrayed. I told him I needed some time to think about it but I just cant understand his f*cked up thought process as to why he thought it was okay. Im also a month pregnant with his child and we’re engaged and were going to get married in 2 weeks, which I’ve told him I want to push it off now.

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am

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This is fuck boy energy. What a weirdo, I hope he can prove to you he’s better then that. 🥴🫠

A

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women are not baseball cards to trade and brag about. your body is worthy of privacy and respect. any man willing to do something like this is likely capable of much worse. you are making a grave mistake that could be dangerous if you stay.

Ma

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A real man would never show your nudes to someone else! This is something a high schooler would do. My man would never show my butt to any of his friends.

Al

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Devils advocate here… my partner has an extremely raunchy photo of me as his screensaver (it was a professional lingerie photoshoot) so anyone who sees his phone sees it. He also loves to brag about me to his mates 😂Honestly I don’t care, I am a very private and self conscious person but damn I look good in that photo! And only he sees what’s under the lingerie 😉 So it doesn’t bother me. Give him a chance to prove himself, he clearly thought the picture was hot and was bragging. Now it’s a clear boundary if he breaks it again it’s absolutely grounds to break up, but I’d personally let this once time slide and focus on repairing and enjoying your engagement/wedding and new baby 😇

Al

Al • Aug 12, 2024
I consented to my photo being used as his background, it’s covered by apps anyway lol. People only see it if his phone is open around them. It honestly doesn’t bother me as you can’t see much anyway. It’s tastefully done in a professional setting. Just because I’m okay with it though absolutely doesn’t mean others have to be.

A

A • Aug 12, 2024
this is sad. our bodies aren’t bragging rights. both men in this situation are disgusting.

Al

Al • Aug 12, 2024
Lastly what’s really creepy is it’s his friend who has saved the pic and convo… not your fiancé 🤢 his friend is gross