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why would you be the problem? you carried children for this man. he is literally pathetic jerking off into his phone to likely exploitative, imaginary content of women who wouldn’t even glance at him. who on earth tells a woman she looks disgusting especially that early postpartum? he’s fucking weird. you do not need to “bounce back” to be beautiful and wanted. no man should ever treat you this way. sometimes i wonder if men like this are gay lmfao. it’s just so odd to me to shame a woman for everything her body was designed to do then wack off by yourself.
Porn addiction - leave or ?
Husband has a porn addiction. Seems like it’s gotten worse over the years. We barely have sex once a month, no foreplay, we don’t make out, he does not touch me anywhere besides maybe squeezing my boobs once. No fingering nothing. Says it’s “not his thing?” I’m missing everything intimate that a relationship should be. Small kisses & hugs, sex… just flat out being touched in any way, I miss it.
I had our 2nd child almost 3 months ago and he says I look disgusting. That he just expects me to look “different “ but that my boobs are gross etc. I just want to be loved on and I’ve talked and talked and asked and told him how I felt about what he’s doing and what I need and nothing. I can’t even look at myself anymore.
At what point do I say it’s me, I need to lose weight and bounce back or leave? Do i take responsibility for his porn problem and work on me? Idk what to do 🥺
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NO ! Absolutely not , you do NOT take responsibility for any of his disgusting behavior !! I was so angry reading this … some men are such buttholes and have no idea what women go through being pregnant , and then once we have the baby , they HAVE NO IDEA !! And then have the nerve to say you look disgusting ? Is he serious … girl let me tell you , HE IS THIS PROBLEM ! Not you !! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this . He’s watching porn for his own selfish reasons ,..,. I would leave his behind … work on myself (at your own pace if you feel you need to “change”) and let him have a stroke while you look good and move on in peace .. one of my friends husband was like this after she had their daughter but she ended up leaving him joined the gym and she looks amazing and ik she feels amazing while HE SICK DROOLING OVER HER AND CANT HAVE HER !!! Please please don’t ever think you’re the problem , you’re perfect just the way you are . You had a kid for this dude ! If he can’t be appreciative of that and learn how to be kind to the mother of his child , he can kick rocks !! ✌🏾
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