My mother in law has always been extremely shitty towards me. She had went around and told everyone in the family that I'm a hoe. She intentionally spilled wine on my wedding dress. Has told me to my face when me and my husband were going through fertility issues that a woman who can't give a man a child is a worthless woman. Has called me a bitch. Threaten to hit me when she got drunk. When DID get pregnant, told me she hoped I lost the baby and then I did. She's been AWFUL to me. We haven't spoken to my MIL in 4 years. My husband has had his own issues with his mom from childhood because she convinced his therapist that he's a liar and he's the problem so his therapist would believe his mom and not him.

Well like I said it's been 4 year and me and my husband were just watching TV and out of the blue he gets a message request from his mom's new Facebook. She sent him a picture of a book called adult children of emotionally immature parents. She said she saw this book at a garage sell for free and something told her to get it and that she has read it 3x and realized she did a lot of the stuff in this book to him and she understands if they can't have a relationship but she wanted to say she's sorry.

My husband got a little emotional reading that and has been typing a reply but keeps deleting it. My issue is nowhere in that text did she mention being sorry to ME for what she also put me through. I don't want to deal with this woman anymore. I know she's his mom but I always believe the wife comes first. Especially when your mom treated your wife like trash. I don't want her back.