Me and my now ex bf have been separated for over 3 months. Things were getting rocky between us bc he never took my feelings seriously. Always dismissed them or downplayed them and I never felt like I was being heard. I started to resent him and blow up over small things towards the end of it. It ultimately ended bc I made a public scene and argument over something that wasn’t worth it.

We spoke here and there during the breakup (mostly me trying to repair things and work it out- I joined an intensive therapy program to learn to deal with my emotions better) but finally after no contact, he finally said he was so wrong to treat this situation so carelessly and that he made a huge mistake and that he knows he’ll never find someone who gave him as much as I did and who fits eachothers lives so perfectly.

He acknowledged most of the problems in the relationship stemmed from him and he said he was going to start therapy to learn how to become more emotionally attuned.

I have been so hurt the last few months and felt so meaningless with the way he’s treated this situation so carelessly. I honestly don’t believe that things would get better or that I can even look at him the same anymore after he broke me.

Did anyone here have success getting back together after a breakup? Can things get better? Can you find the love again?