Convince me to leave my bf

Ru

Ru

It's hard. I feel like he has lost his love for me and doesn't care for me like he used to. He texts me less, and doesnt bother asking about how i am most of the time. I feel like im just in denial. Or im just attached to his affection for me and am afraid to leave because i dont want to feel the pain. Someone please wake me up.

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Have you talked to him about this?...

Ca

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Why don’t you try having a conversation with him.

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You should definitely talk about it with him instead of assuming. Sometimes negative intrusive thoughts can take over.

Br

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Women don't leave relationships until they've had enough. Men don't leave relationships until they have a backup in place. If he's not showing you love and respect, leave. He won't be the one to leave you but he'll hang on until you're totally done.

Ru

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I did talk to him about it. But everytime i tell him, he just keeps quiet and doesn't say anything. And he becomes cold and doesn't want to talk to me

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💋calimomma🦋 • Sep 21, 2024
In that case sometimes no response is a response. If he’s not loving you the way you want to be loved and he’s not willing to actively listen to you about how your feeling then you already know what time it is. Get your big girl panties on and move on. Yes, sits going to be painful but it’s temporary but the pain from staying with someone who doesn’t love you the way u need is more painful and wares on you mentally and emotionally. Breakup with him and work on yourself and live your best life. You’ll meet someone who will love you the way u want and need. Good luck.

Ru

Ru • Sep 21, 2024
I don't know how to have a proper conversation with him when he always reacts that way. I feel like I'm talking to a wall. In the end he doesn't explain anything. He just keeps quiet.