For context it's just my mother in-law living downstairs together with my brother in law. My father in-law recently passed away. My husband and I have been married for almost 10 yrs and have no children. We are a bit better finacially but still not where we would like to be but I'm about to turn 35 and don't want to waste my actively fertile years. My husband is not keen about moving out because his mother is a widow and brother has mental health issues. Just wanted to share here because I don't speak about this in real life to anyone really.