the guy that I have been talking to for about 6 months now I always tell him he’s extremely blunt. sometimes to much can be to much at least for me.. I changed my hair up last night for work (we work together) and i’m natural so my hair is naturally curly.. I wore it down as I always have it in a ponytail.. I thought I looked cute when I walked out the house the morning I always get compliments on my natural hair.. it’s pretty long and thick. he goes “girl you look like I poodle I said I know she didn’t come in here looking like that” I thought he was joking at first then I go are you serious and he’s like yes. and I told him how it hurt my feelings and he didn’t feel like he said anything wrong. he’s entitled to his own opinion but how he said it is the problem and I tell him this all the time and he sees no wrong in how he speaks or says things. and he called me a poodle all day long. coming from a guy i’m having sex with i’m upset.. and he has yet to apologize.. do you guys think he was being playful or just outright rude?