Here we go again

Shelbie

Well has the title suggested here we go again.  I am recently pregnant with my second son and my oldest is 27 months old. And I am still the main caretaker for the 27 month old even though I only have seven weeks left of this newest pregnancy. However, my husband still refuses to really help do anything unless being told what to do with our toddler or anything around the house. Like for example, who they give me the mocking that’s what you sound like I tell him I want him to do something or he’ll just forget. Or if I go to the store and if I spend like over $170, he’s like what all did you buy? I always I buy enough groceries to last us until we get paid again for the next pay period. (which is every two weeks) Even though I know messing with me, it’s still kind of annoying because I feel like I’m being his parent as well. Say if my parents decide to come to visit he will act like “super dad” like he’ll be more involved in taking care of the toddler but if we go to his family house, he rather goof off with his brother and just leave me with the toddler. I’m trying to definitely get more stressed out the closer I get to my due date just because I’ve been the only one doing anything in the house now I’m gonna be the one doing anything with the newborn and the toddler once he gets here. My mom and my brother have both told me that I think it’s real shitty how he’s been acting here lately. Along with my brother so he could care less if he ever saw my husband again because he thinks he’s treating me like garbage. How do I make my spouse at like super dad when it’s just us at our house without any company? Because I’m absolutely exhausted of doing everything by myself.