A few months back when we had our baby shower we invited both male and female (mostly coupes we’re friends with). My husband invited his old roommate and his girlfriend. #1 they didn’t bring a gift (which really isn’t an issue, I understand times are tough) my issue is that at the end when I was cleaning up, they saw me putting away alcohol that was left over away (beer, seltzers etc) and there was a lot of it. My bestfriend hosted the baby shower and paid for it so obviously I wanted to return all of the boxes of left overs that were un opened. We had about 100 guest so there was a few hundred dollars worth of alcohol left that I was going to return. Well I know they saw me because they asked me what I was doing and I told them. As I was coming back in from loading things into my car, I noticed both of them had stuffed a bunch of alcohol into their pants and her purse. (It would have been not as bad if they just opened one box but no.. for some reason they opened every single box and took from almost every box so now I could no longer return them). The reason im bringing this up is because we are now moving to the same town as them for my husbands job relocation and now my husband will be his boss and his friend is already asking to come over and hang out etc

He already always asks to come over even though they live an hour away. Obviously my response to my husband is no. I was and still am upset that they did that. They don’t know I know but it just rubbed me the wrong way and I just don’t want them in my house.

Is this too harsh? My husband asked if he got him to apologize, would that help and honestly the answer is no.

What are your thoughts?