Going through it

This is my fifth pregnancy and yet this one is kicking my ass!!! Everything hurts I can’t move I have this pain in my upper back if I turn too much I cry feels like a gas pain but idk this baby won’t reveal his/ herself. Won’t let the doctor take pictures of it !! Idk guys ! Husband is getting annoyed cause he has to do everything no help from the younger kids I’m always sick ! Have these weird pain feel like contractions or waves in my lower back! The doctor said cervix is long and closed! I guess this babe loves my back idk ! I feel like a whale I’ve gained 23 lbs still have 4 months to go