Dealing alot.

First and foremost i am a wife with 4 children + stepchild and work 2 jobs. My husband works as well. My husband he is a hard working men been married for 6 years. Now, with everything going on the economy in the bills we've priorities alittle bit more with everything. What my concern is his babyma who I feel like is not being fair she decided to put my husband on child support after she found out I was pregnant with my 3rd child. Mind you she was receiving money before child support he never missed a beat. After that she called him she was on speaker in she decided to ask him that he needs to drop her off on sundays and she will drop her off on fridays at the house We agreed to that. So, now I told him that it leaves me to let my boss know that I can't work Saturdays now cause of my step daughter she needs to be watched. My husband works saturdays because of its overtime while child support is taken off. More to the story she moved out her mother's house to live by herself with her daughter then after that she didnt let us know that she decided to get another another job and school an im over here like whats going on???!?! Your daughter needs you right now!!! she's behind in school babygirl is in 2nd grade she needs speech therapy, she can't differentiate colors. I got so mad an told my husband you need to talk to her about living with us. Her mother is working 2 jobs plus school then have the nerve to tell my husband that he has to pick her up and drop her off now mind you we have 1 car and I be late going to work because of her lack of communication on what time to pick babygirl up. Furthermore, she sent a text that he better do this cause shes to busy otherwise he wont see his daughter no more in thats her word shes not discussing it no more. I was like excuse me in my head ohh no woman you got life all the way fucked up I sacrificed my hours to watch babygirl, teaching her, making sure she is getting the right help she needs tf this ain't about you. Its about babygirl in her needs to succeed in life but you out here doing to much I'am not on your time. Im trying to figure out am Im I being to much??