I’ve had vaginal cysts over the years, really just started in 2020 and I get them randomly.

Ever since my first one, sooo painful, I made sure to practice good hygiene and wash thoroughly.

My husband and I did about 7 hours worth of yard work yesterday. Feeling exhausted after we had a drink/hung out - we both hopped in the shower.

We got a little frisky and when he started to finger me I could tell by his other hand there was still dirt under his nails.

I stopped it all so abruptly and I’m like did you wash your hands!?!! He’s like oh no, sorry.

I LOVE THIS MAN. I love him. But that is disgusting and now I am reaping the worst of it as almost 12 hours later I have a cyst forming RIGHT where he inserted his fingers.

Yes I am 1000% blaming him. Wouldn’t you!?!

Shouldn’t most men that have been with a woman for almost 2 decades know our vagina and all is like a PH eco system? Especially because I’ve been open with him in the past.