Im done with my husband…

I’ve been for a while and then he gets better but fall back to being a lazy mf again… he stayed with my son today cause there was no school, mind you he is autistic and non verbal… when I get back I asked if he had gone potty again since he’s usually constipated and he says idk… so I ask if he changed his diaper at all since this morning and he says no… sorry I was in a rush… so I stay quiet I don’t say anything and he leaves for work… I check the cameras and of course he had time to play video games, watch YouTube on his phone and jerk it… I usually don’t mind but to me it seems that my son was neglected all day. Why can’t he be a functional adult ? I’m so done with him… I can’t go anywhere so idk I’ll have to figure some kind of coparenting while I figure something else out