Waiting to tell family and friends!

Anyone wait to tell family and friends you’re pregnant until about 20 weeks after anatomy scan? Or when did you tell everyone? With my first two we told family and friends basically right away… but with our third we want to wait until 20 weeks to tell everyone. We will see how it will go.. I know it’s so hard to not say anything especially since I love everyone on my side and my husbands side of the family but we want to just keep it to ourself for a bit and I think it will be fun😅 it’ll be a big surprise for everyone and I’ll already have a little bump by than. Idk please tell me how you got through it and how far along until you decided to let everyone know on the big secret😅 I’m scared that they will know and ask if I’m pregnant and not sure if I should lie🙃