Am I tripping or…

Yes, sometimes I read too deep into things. I think my emotions are just heightened with everything that’s going on.

So my boyfriend and father of my 2 y/o has an 18 y/o from a previous relationship. Me and his son’s mother are cordial, even though we haven’t spoken in months. She got upset about something my bf said in regard to their non existent co-parenting relationship and we haven’t talked since. I texted her back in August to check up on her and she ignored it and she also stopped calling me with updates about their son. His (son’s) maternal grandmother is cool too, for the most part, but some of the things she says just throw me off but then I’m like am I reading too deep into it. For instance, a situation happened to where my bf would possibly miss his son’s graduation and she kept saying stuff like “that’s his first born, I know that would hurt him” and it’s always his first born this, first born that. Then a situation happened to where his son was locked up over the summer and could be facing some serious time. My bf already blames himself because he wasn’t there to mediate the situation. And every time I talk to her on the phone, and even text, it’s always “I know he’s hurting his first born is locked up”, “he can’t do anything to help his first born out of this situation” or “imagine how he feels, his first born is in jail”.

It’s not that serious right? Lol. Maybe I’m just becoming annoyed with it because there’s other (stressful) things going on right now too. It lowkey makes me feel like she’s trying to rub in the fact that that’s his first born child or something which doesn’t really make sense, but I also don’t put anything past anyone either.