How do I break up with someone I love?

I love him but we’re just not compatible.

This makes it really hard to let go.

I have other posts on my profile if you wanna be nosy but we’ve just been together since we were young & now I’m starting to feel resentment about not being able to make my own choices.

I feel like I’ve sacrificed a lot of value and goals. At the time I wanted to but now that I’m 22, I just want to do my own thing.

Anyways, I love him & part of me still wants to work it out with him but I’ve lost motivation & I feel so burnt out from sacrificing things. I know love takes sacrifice but I just want to be selfish. Now when he asks me to make a compromise I feel annoyed & like I don’t want to be told what to do.

I feel myself becoming a bad partner because I just don’t want to sacrifice and compromise.

I don’t want to hurt him but I feel like I will.

Is there a way to “fix” how I feel so that I can be a better partner without breaking up?

How do I find the motivation to sacrifice & compromise again?

Or.. how do I break up with someone I love?