Has anyone terminated a pregnancy?

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I'm 6 weeks pregnant with my 4th baby. I'm 45 years old, thought I was WAY past having babies, and financially strapped. Our kids are 10, 9 and 3 and they are my world, but they are also a lot to handle. The older two have adhd, the 3 year old is WILD and I am exhausted all the time. My last pregnancy was difficult and this time I already feel like crap. I just don't think I can do this again. Not physically, mentally or financially. But I never felt abortion would be an option for me, neither did my husband, although we've always been fiercely prochoice. My question is, am I going to regret this for the rest of my life? I think I can do this, but then I get this feeling like we've survived 3, would 4 be that big of a change? Help, please!

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If you think you will regret it now, you likely will live with that guilt.

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If you have to question it deep down that’s not what you want if your not 100% on your decision you will regret it

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Congrats on your pregnancy! You can absolutely do this girl!!!! It’s going to be challenging, and there will be times when you are at your wits end, but you are a mom already, so you know that the struggle is worth it because there is also there is also so many good times, the laughter, and unconditional love. You have the great honor of being a mom again to another tiny human❤️Lean on God if that’s your thing, your husband, your family, and friends. Giving you all the encouragement in the world🥰❤️

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Once you've had 3 kids a 4th is whatever. Lol I have 4 btw. Do whatever you think is best for you though.

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I think if you have to question wether if note you want one I think terminating wouldn't be the way to go for you , you think about adoption?

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I had an abortion 25 years ago and haven’t regretted it one time ever. It was absolutely the right choice for me at that time in my life, and allowed me to have the life I have now, which includes being a parent to two great kids. 
If I got pregnant again now or in the future, I would have an abortion without hesitation. I don’t want any more children. 
Abortion is healthcare.

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It’s a personal choice, nobody here can tell you what to do either way. Best thing you can do is look at your situation for yourself and your family and if having another child is something you want and can do at this time. Go from there and see where it takes you. Whatever you decide remember you didn’t make it lightly and be gentle on yourself about your decision.

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No one can answer this for you. It’s a personal choice. Only you know what you can do, how you feel, and what you want.

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I haven’t personally had one. But I know a lot of people who have, and honestly not one person I know regrets it. We’ve had lots of discussions and there are many reasons why they made the choice, some financial, some because the man it would tie them to, some medical, no regrets. I’m 22 weeks with twins now, and I’ve never been the type to bond with my fetus, if I had to make a call for any reason, I don’t think I’d be tormented by it. But who knows.

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I’ve had an abortion once and didn’t regret it but I was also 100% confident about it and wouldn’t suggest it unless you are too

Has anyone terminated a pregnancy?

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