Controlling?

My boyfriend always tells me to move out when he’s upset. He’s so mean to me when he’s mad.

He tells me to get out but to leave our child.

All I wanted to do was go see my friend. My child is 2 and a half..I barely been out. Wasn’t going to be gone that long. Yes I told him that.

Then he says he’s going to take off with our child if I leave.

He also said he will change the locks as well. The only time I left my child to go out was for my birthday in July but that was all night and my son has a hard time without me.

I just don’t understand.