Am I doing something wrong 😩

Me and my partner have been in a relationship for three years. The start of the relationship was absolutely perfect. I was so content. A lot of shit went on like a baby a new house the list goes on… for two years I can count on my hands how much we’ve had sex, he rarely hugs me or kisses me. Barely tells me he loves me. We have the same argument again and again about this I feel so so stupid for bringing it up all the time. I just feel like I have needs. This can’t go on forever. I must be doing something wrong as he never compliments me nothing. We have a good friendship and he’s an amazing dad. But why doesn’t he care to

Come near me.