Zero sexual attraction towards husband

I don’t know what else to do. We just had sex and it was the most boring thing ever. I had to do everything, I did it because it had been a month and I could tell he wanted to. Not because because he was seducing me or anything. Because he doesn’t do anything. He thinks punching my nipple is foreplay.

I have asked how I want to be seduced and fucked. He recently got told by the Dr he’s morbidly obese . There is absolutely nothing attractive about him right now. I’m just ranting. I’m 32, he’s 34 and always complaining about how tired and old he feels. Meanwhile I feel full of energy ready to tackle each day. I work 12h shifts and I have still come home and ask for sex but he’s too tired working 8h shifts. HOW THE HELL?? I don’t deserve this shit. I just bought new sex toys and looked at me like he was judging. I’m so annoyed right now.

1. I have verbalized my needs.

2. I have invited him to work out.

3. I’ve bought new lingerie.