Before summer I had a huge (one-sided) argument with my stepfather. He cussed me out for a whole hour because I had accidentally locked the front door while him and my mom was outside. They were locked out for about 3 minutes before they called my phone and he was screaming at me. He’s an alcoholic and had been drinking the whole day, more than usual, and after that he was name calling me to my mom. He called me spoiled, ungrateful, bratty, annoying, rude, etc. He complained that I never do anything, I never help or contribute and I just take up space in the house. My mom didn’t say anything to make him stop. After one hour of this I broke down crying and went to stay with my boyfriend for a week. He never apologised to me and they both pretended like nothing happened. Shortly after I moved far away with my boyfriend and never saw them again. We have now broken up and I moved back home, but to my own apartment. My mom has asked to visit multiple times but I always have excuses not to see them. She asked me if there was a reason for me not having visited them yet, and I said that she knows very well why I don’t want to see them. That’s when she called me childish and said that I should grow up and get over what happened. She made so many excuses for his behaviour and said that I am just being annoying at this point. After that I haven’t spoken to her at all and I haven’t bought a present for her or my step dad this year. Am I being a bad daughter for that? She will definitely tell me that after Christmas.