Annoyed with everyone

I'm so fucking pissed off and annoyed. I'm a nurse and have had to work mandatory overtime because we are short staffed. I worked a 14 HOUR SHIFT TO FUCKING DAY!!! My husband is off work until the 7th. He's a band teacher. All 3 of my kids are home because the older two are also on break. I'll also have to work Christmas so everyone is getting a break except me. I come home and like 2 other 8th grade boys are in my home. I asked my son all these boys are here and he said dad said it was okay. So I asked my husband why he said yes without asking me and he said I had already said I was okay with him having friends spend the night over winter break. I didn't mean during the fucking weekday wtf? Like the weekend. Then I had to go to the bathroom and my husband still had the toddler potty seat attached to the toilet. We are potty training our 3 year old but he doesn't remember to take the potty seat off after she's gone. I just got mad and yelled at him and he told me to stop talking to him like that. It's like nobody in this house understands that not everyone here is getting 2 weeks vacation. I have to work and will be working Christmas and it's annoying how inconsiderate family can be. Especially with moms. Like I wish I could sit on my ass for 2 weeks. Fuck