Am I wrong ?

Hi everyone my newborn is 10 days old, so far only a few immediate family members have met her. I recently expressed to my partner that I do not want any more visitors form both sides of the family. He agreed but asked if his parent can see her one last time I said yes, his parents and my mom until she’s a bit older. So my moms scheduled to come in two days, his mom was suppose to come tomorrow but he told me she text him that she wasn’t feeling too well. His dad is returning from Mexico tomorrow so he told him to wait till next weekend. Now that his mom isn’t feeling well I asked if they can wait at least two weeks because they can be caring the germ. He instantly got mad and said how “stupid” that is, that they should be good by next weekend. Am I wrong for wanting to be extra cautious???