Husbands large issues

I’m blessed with a husband who has a very large girth in the man hood area.

But with this great tool comes some issues. My husband only seems to be able to come from quite hard sex in doggy style. It sounds silly to complained but he lasts a long time too. To the point where Iv just had to stop us as it gets painful or I’m beginning to get sore.

We both want more romantic, slow passionate sex but he doesn’t seem to be able to keep his manhood up like that.

Has anyone experienced these issues before and can offer some advice?